Surviving Sexual Slavery: Esther's Story
Please note: this story contains references to sexual violence and abuse which some people may find upsetting
Human trafficking, also referred to as modern day slavery is a heinous yet profitable crime. The International Labour Organization estimates that there are 40.3 million victims of human trafficking globally and it91论坛 a $150 billion industry.
No country is immune from this unfathomable violation of rights. Trafficking within Canada for the purpose of sexual exploitation is reported to be the most common form of modern slavery detected by authorities.
Traffickers or pimps target vulnerable people, including children and exploit them to make money.
This is the story of a girl who survived.
In her own words: Esther91论坛 story
鈥淚 was a girl with a very big dream. I wanted to be a doctor, but it didn鈥檛 work out.鈥
Maybe because of the poverty. I lost my dad when I was eight years old and then everything became tougher for my mum, my siblings and me.
My mum had to marry another man. He would say to me: 鈥淵ou鈥檙e not my child so why should I care鈥. My mum had to do everything. We had to hawk things on the street to make enough money to buy food. We would work all day long.
Conflict in Nigeria has proved ideal ground for traffickers and 94% of victims are women and girls, the majority of whom are trafficked for sexual exploitation. Many girls are tricked, lured and taken from their homes.
Esther* was enticed into moving to Nigeria91论坛 capital city Abuja by a woman who offered her a job, but when she arrived, she found herself forced into prostitution.
鈥淲hen I was 16, a woman came to our house and told me she would like me to go with her to Abuja where she promised she would find me work.
I travelled there on the bus with two other girls. When we arrived in Abuja the woman picked us up from the bus stop. She took us to a hotel where I saw lots of girls wearing just their pants and bras鈥 I asked her what I was doing there 鈥 why would I be here?
She said: 鈥淭his is what you鈥檙e coming here to do.鈥 She said if I didn鈥檛, I鈥檇 have to pay her all the money back for the journey. I cried and cried, but she told me: 鈥淵our crying cannot save you.鈥
Forced into prostitution
I was forced to start sleeping with men 鈥 all kinds of men. I had to give all the money I made to her. Every day, I had to go out to clubs to sleep with men and she would take all the money. Immediately I returned home, she would ask 鈥淲here91论坛 my money鈥 and I would give it all to her. Sometimes I would make 20 or 30 thousand naira a night.
Men would come to the hotel and after a drink they say they want to sleep with you. Even when I was menstruating, I still had to sleep with them. I felt like there was something missing because it was painful for me to go through all those things. I didn鈥檛 want my life to be that. I was forced into it and I didn鈥檛 have any way out. My life was miserable.
Eventually I met a woman who was teaching at the nearby church. We became friends and she took me to a safe house. Now I鈥檓 a caterer and I will soon become a chef.
New beginnings
When I first came here I was very aggressive, I was stubborn because of the life I was used to. I had to learn how to forgive. How to move on and forget about my past. No matter how much someone hurts you, you have to let go. I think I still have the passion to go to school. I want to help someone in the future, that91论坛 what I want to do.
I鈥檓 so much happier. I have peace, I have everything I can think of in this world.鈥
Today, Esther is living in a safe house, learning new skills and receiving the support she needs to rebuild her life.
鈥淢y hope is that trafficking will stop. People don鈥檛 know enough about it.鈥
91论坛 is facilitating a youth-led solidarity campaign to say No To Trafficking. Gift and Tama (photographed above), are leading a girl-led movement to demand federal and state government departments to join to say No to Trafficking and together commit to implementing a public awareness campaign that reaches remote communities, to ensure every girl and their families know the risks of trafficking and exploitation.
*Name has been changed to protect identity
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